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Another online debate (with myself)
I’ve come across another guy I’m attracted to – his looks, lifestyle and what he says he wants in life are all within my must haves.
The reason I didn’t connect with him in the last round is he has 2 pictures with his shirt off. He’s in extremely good shape. It seems to be a big part of his life. I can tell he’s proud of his body. Is that a bad thing?
Few more things that made me judge against connecting with him last time I was online: he lists his income ($100,000 - $150,000), he travels a lot and that is why he doesn’t have pets -or kids, listed exotic pets as an interest. I’m afraid he may own a snake or something.
Are those good enough reasons to not strike up a conversation? Everything else is inline with what I’m looking for.
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Comment by A. Alford on August 13, 2011 at 1:04pm -
Those aren't the best reasons to pass on him but they may hint at something else. Those might just be the only conscious reasons you can think of for something that you find unsettling about him. I think it's best to go with you're gut. If you do start a conversation and still feel like you can't connect for some reason move on.
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